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Attention! Attention! Seek Me Out!

                 There are many reasons why men and women seek attention from the opposite sex. In research I have found psychological, personal and recollections from friends as to why attention is an objective. The logical response is, do we really know why attention is sought out? Maybe not, because people lie to themselves every day. To make themselves feel better, to be seen as better than others and even in some cases, pathological. It seems that social media even plays a major role in attention seeking behaviors. So, let’s discuss the issue at hand.                 In theory, everyone has some sort of attention seeking behavior. Whether it be for likes, comments and in my case, reads. There are certain personality traits that contribute to the attention seekers. Passive aggression and manipulation are key traits in someone who thrives off attention. They will ...

The Last Day

  New Year’s Eve. The most celebrated holiday in the world. Why is it we wait until the final day of the year to recollect our past decisions? Why is it we wait until the final day of the year to make a “resolution” for the upcoming year? Societal cliché that making “resolutions” is an unspoken rule. But why wait? What is the purpose of waiting for the final day of the year? We can obtain small goals throughout the year and even if we do not make to the finish line, we can try again. We lie to ourselves or give ourselves false hope. False enthusiasm, which only leads to failed “resolutions”. We promise ourselves things that may not be obtainable, yet when we fail and look back and chalk in up to a bad year. 2012 bad year because I got caught by the police. 2014 bad year because I lost a job I loved, etc. What makes an ENTIRE year bad, one thing? Multiple? If that was the case what was fucking 2020, a disastrous year? An abomination? I think we are quick to project our lives overa...